The idea of oral sex tends to make a lot of women feel incredibly nervous for a number of reasons. However, the most popular reason might just be because they are worried that they aren’t going to be very good. Sometimes, when we haven’t done something before or not very often, we don’t feel really comfortable with it. We are fearful that we are going to fail so therefore, in order to avoid feeling this way, we avoid it completely.
This is not exactly something that you can do when it comes to oral sex with your man. It is just such a pleasurable part of sex and one that really makes a person feel good. If he is comfortable with doing this to you, then you know exactly how amazing it feels. Don’t you want to be able to reciprocate the sensation and satisfaction?
You can have more confidence and you can start as early as tonight. You want to know how to give your man oral pleasure and that is exactly what you are going to learn. To help you on this journey, here are some step-by-step instructions to guide you to rocking his world with just your mouth now.
The first step is to get him ready. Stimulating him when he is flaccid will not be an enjoyable experience for either of you. For you, it’s just not attractive and for him, he isn’t feeling that comfortable when he isn’t fully erect. Try some foreplay stimulation such as passionate kissing and touching. You can stimulate him with your hand first in order to get him going. Once you can feel the difference, then you can start with oral.
The second step is to start giving him some stimulation very slowly. Use all that your mouth can offer, such as your tongue and your lips. Never use your teeth! Always make sure that you are avoiding that. Even though biting can be sexy on other parts of the body, this is one part of his body that your teeth should never touch.
The third step is to make sure that everything is well lubricated. The wetter oral sex is for him, the better. It just feels better. Try using a flavored lubricant on him. Not only will it feel better for him but it will make him taste like candy to you, so if taste was ever on your list of oral sex concerns, you can take it off of the list now.
The forth step is to learn how you can enjoy it. You might be nervous at first but the best thing that you can do when you are performing oral sex on a man is to really get into it. Men tend to feel bad or guilty for getting a woman to do this for them so reassure him that this is something that you want to do and you will easily become one of the best that he has ever had. The more you enjoy it, the more he will enjoy it and therefore, the stronger and more powerful of an orgasm he will have.